Jean Shafiroff: New York’s First Lady of Philanthropy on a Mission to Give Back
If there’s anyone who embodies the spirit of giving with glamour, grace, and relentless dedication, it’s Jean Shafiroff — the woman many call New York’s "First Lady of Philanthropy." A fixture on the social and charity circuits, Shafiroff is known not just for her signature ball gowns and commanding presence, but for her tireless advocacy and fundraising work across a diverse range of causes.
With a calendar that includes attending over 150 galas a year and serving on more than seven charity boards, Shafiroff manages to make philanthropy her life’s mission. “It’s like a full-time job, but one I love,” she shared. From women's rights and animal welfare to healthcare and underserved communities, Shafiroff's impact extends well beyond the red carpet.
Among her major board commitments are the New York Women’s Foundation, Casita Maria Center for Arts and Education, the Mission Society of New York City, and the Southampton Hospital Foundation. She’s also involved in global animal welfare as a board member of Global Strays, a charity founded by her daughter. Her dedication runs deep: “I believe if you are blessed, you have an obligation to give back,” she says, underscoring her belief that philanthropy should be a family value.
Despite her vast network and high-profile appearances, Shafiroff remains hands-on. Whether hosting events in her homes in New York and the Hamptons, or working behind the scenes to secure funding for struggling nonprofits, she emphasizes the importance of commitment beyond simply showing up. “The three G’s of any board are: Give, Get, or Get Off,” she notes, reflecting her pragmatic approach to charity work.
Her causes are as varied as they are essential. From supporting LGBTQ+ rights to organizing galas for animal shelters, including the Southampton Animal Shelter, and championing children's education through organizations like Casita Maria, Shafiroff makes room for issues close to her heart. She also highlights that philanthropy isn’t only about money: “If you can’t give financially, give your time or expertise.”
For those aspiring to enter the world of giving, she offers thoughtful advice: “Start slow. Find a cause you’re passionate about. Attend events, volunteer, get to know the organization. And always treat everyone — from the biggest donor to the people you serve — with dignity and respect.”
Shafiroff has also authored a guidebook on this very topic, "Successful Philanthropy: How to Make a Life by What You Give," inspiring countless others to join the philanthropic process with integrity and impact.
When asked how she manages such a demanding schedule, Shafiroff is quick to credit a trusted team — from florists and caterers to trusted charity partners — but also admits, “It’s my passion. It gives me purpose.”
With her signature style and generosity, Shafiroff proves that philanthropy and elegance are not mutually exclusive — and that giving back is always in fashion.